In the human body, immunity is built up typically by exposure to certain toxins or diseases. In the social body, we hope that once people are well aware of the consequences of certain decisions with adverse effects, that a similar kind of immunity will emerge. In this more aware state, society will offer people the right resources to build up strength, resilience, and adaptive ingenuity to achieve a flourishing period of integrative, holistic, and inclusive creativity.
Rebuild: Subchapter III.
Bodies of Knowledge
The Importance of Rituals & Ceremonies
Rituals connect our daily routines to patterns of tradition. Ceremony supplies meaning in celebrating the natural peaks and valleys of life.
Rituals and ceremonies are commonplace within indigenous cultures. Religions also centralize rituals and ceremonies. However, contemporary secular society hasn’t traditionally had many rituals and ceremonies that connect to nature or to a source of divinity. How can we find a balance between connections with long-established sources of wisdom without feeling constrained by dogma?
First of all, we must access sources of wisdom and understand the meaning of ritual and ceremony. The challenge in connecting to sources of wisdom that have guided humans throughout generations, is that a great deal of wisdom is going extinct (along with the cultures and languages in which that wisdom has lived). Society is in need of a welcoming space in which tribal ancient rituals can be reintroduced and live on within globalized culture.
Wendy Mandy, a healer practicing shamanistic traditions, speaks to the importance of collecting and practicing longstanding traditions of knowledge from her personal experience, having grown up with indigenous communities in both Nigeria and South America. Russell Brand interviewed Mandy for his podcast in April, 2019.21 During their conversation, Mandy explained where routines drifted apart from rituals and the important, meaningful, and grounding purpose of ceremony in life’s cycles.
Ceremony predates organized religion. Ceremonies, such as the naming of a child or traditional rites of passage, connect us to nature, family, community, as well as serve to give an individual insights into one’s own being. Rituals, like lighting candles or saying prayers of gratitude, can imbue everyday moments with greater meaning. Most of the routines of daily life in globalized society are like rituals devoid of meaning. The constant barrage of information and demands of daily routines, occur like a constant push-and-pull in opposite directions between what feels relevant to giving life meaning, and what feels like a distraction away from what’s truly important. Ceremony helps provide structure and rhythm to daily life and it can have the effect of bringing greater purpose to our actions.
Purposeful connections are made within ceremony, such as the link between the sexual and the spiritual. In secular society, we experience segmented, and often conflicting, expressions of sexuality: chaste social interactions and then the private invitation of pornography. Because there is not space made for the conversation around how sexuality is at the core of humanity (the ability to procreate and evolve), sexual impulses have been repressed within society, resurfacing in places like pornography rather than finding more wholesome outlets. In many social groups in the past, dancing provided a strong connection between sexual and spiritual domains. Mandy speaks of the Himba tribe of northern Namibia, in which dancing with each other elevates the group energy. The erotic receives a kind of release not sealed off behind walls, but open, in public, in the collective consciousness. This sublimation of sexual drive through spiritual expression offers a healthy way to process and release this powerful energy.
Rituals and ceremonies increase intuitive understanding of oneself and relationships with others. Mandy explains how, within Himba society, although a woman might have different sexual partners, she can still intuit which man will be the father of her child. And, within that relationship, the child matters more than the two individuals who comprise its parents. In Himba culture, bringing a child into the world is not about making a tiny version of oneself. The ego has been removed from the procreation equation. It’s time we all distance ourselves from this Western notion of having a child to fulfill our egos. Our children should grow up without the subconscious idea of inherited “unfinished business” influencing their growth. The focus of parenting should remain on the child, on being reared with meaning and purpose in one’s life. Prioritizing this focus reaffirms the capacity for care that courses through everyone.
Mandy offers the reminder to be compassionate to yourself, or else there’s no chance at being compassionate toward others. Throw away the things that don’t go well for you at end of day and, the next day, start from a new beginning. A relatively easy ritual we can all engage in is to make up a list of things to be grateful for. This practice sets us on a better resonance and can be incredibly motivating. This kind of list-making can also create a structure within the day, and eventually, throughout the architecture of our lives.
Ceremony and ritual bring meaning and beauty into the fold of everyday activities. Understanding one’s meaningfulness connects the physical and mental self and expands consciousness. Our bodies hold a great deal of wisdom, yet we have to learn how to access that wisdom. Ceremony offers a potent pathway to get in touch with ourselves and connect to that powerful constellation of energy and vibration within us. Everything is available, so long as we understand how to get to that place of abundance. Nothing ever disappears completely… Even when the heart stops beating, where does the frequency go? How might we learn to incorporate ritual and ceremony into our lives such that we become able to uncover and connect with the endless powerful energies that are constantly present all around us?